When someone experiences a loss, we instinctively want to offer comfort — something that says, “I’m thinking of you” without overwhelming them.

Flowers are a beautiful gesture on their own, but pairing them with a small, thoughtful gift can make your expression of care feel even more personal.

At Perfect Petals, many customers ask: Can you send sympathy flowers with a gift? The answer is yes — and here’s how to do it with grace and compassion.

Why Pair Flowers with a Gift?

Grief is complex. While flowers speak beauty and softness, a small gift can provide comfort beyond the moment. It offers something to hold, use, or reflect with — creating a layered experience of care.

Thoughtful Gift Ideas to Include

Here are some appropriate gift options to send alongside sympathy flowers:

• Scented Candle: A calming scent to create a peaceful space.

• Keepsake Book: A guided tribute to help honour memories.

• A Living Gift – e.g., the Peace Lily – symbolising peace, purity, and remembrance

 When a Gift Is Especially Appropriate

• If you were particularly close to the grieving person, you’ll know instinctively what they will appreciate

• If the loss was unexpected or especially traumatic

• If you're sending something a week or more after the funeral

• If you’re looking for an alternative to food-based hampers

Consider Cultural Sensitivity

Be mindful of cultural or religious traditions — not all faiths or customs include the exchange of sympathy gifts.
Jewish and Muslim traditions do not dictate fresh flowers as a bereavement custom, and the Hindu tradition is for flowers to be used in the ceremony. Some cultures have very strict guidelines around flowers for bereavements. Read the blog here.
When in doubt, simpler is safer — or ask the family’s preferences if appropriate.

Sympathy Gift Bundles by Perfect Petals

Our curated sympathy gift bundles combine anything from elegant blooms or living gifts with small, meaningful keepsakes.
Delivered with care and available for same-day delivery in Brisbane, these bundles are designed to wrap the recipient in thoughtfulness.

→ Browse Sympathy Flowers and Gift Sets:

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Not Sure What’s Appropriate?

Let our team gently guide you.
Give us a call on (07) 3399 9659 — we’ll help you select something that feels just right.