When someone passes away, sending flowers is one of the most heartfelt ways to show support. But how do you choose the right arrangement? The type of flowers you send can vary depending on your relationship to the deceased or their family.

At Perfect Petals, we often guide customers through this emotional decision. Here’s a gentle, respectful breakdown to help you send something meaningful and appropriate.

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 For Immediate Family

Large, formal arrangements such as standing sprays and casket sheafs are typically chosen by immediate family members. These flowers often play a central role in the service and reflect deep love and loss.

We recommend for the service either an arrangement in its own water source, or a wreath – this can be anything from a traditional round wreath to a heart-shaped tribute or, for particularly religious people, the cross shape is widely chosen.

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 For Extended Family

A tasteful vase bouquet or arrangement in soft tones is suitable. Consider something that can be taken home after the service — a lasting reminder of connection and comfort.

You may wish to send condolence flowers to their home prior to the funeral service or even after the service — both are completely acceptable.

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 For Friends or Colleagues

Opt for an arrangement in pastel tones or a sympathy vase arrangement. These can be delivered to the home as a gesture of ongoing care, or to the office if appropriate.

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 For Acquaintances or Distant Connections

Choose something simple and elegant. White lilies, roses, or a mixed seasonal arrangement in neutral tones show respect without being overly personal.

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 When Supporting a Grieving Friend

If your gesture is primarily for someone you know (rather than the deceased), think of what will bring them peace.

A bouquet paired with a journal, candle, or perhaps an everlasting flower or plant can feel both personal and sentimental.

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 General Tips:

• When in doubt, white is always a safe and respectful choice.

• Avoid bright colours unless you know the family's preferences.

• Add a short, sincere message with your card — our guide on ‘What to Write in a Sympathy Card’ can help.

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 Local Support You Can Trust

Perfect Petals offers same-day delivery across Brisbane, with arrangements tailored for both home and service delivery.
We’re here to guide you through every step with care.

→ Browse our Sympathy Collection

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